Very rarely do I feel lonely being a single adult woman. When it hits me the most is when there are things going on that are for couples and then I sort of feel left out. But usually the feeling only lasts a couple of minutes. See for me, I have such a peace about the lack of drama in my life now that I am single. So I relish in that when I start to feel that way.
However, lately I have been really noticing that I do not have a mate in my life, someone to share life with. I think it is because there are some major things going on in my life that I wish I had someone to talk about it with. Someone to have as a sounding board, to throw ideas off of. Even someone to give me advice and point me in the right direction in my thinking.
My ex and I were able to talk things through a lot, it was one of the strong parts of our marriage. When things got bad (when it pertained to others not us) we were able to talk things through. So I guess it is easy to miss the good parts of my marriage when I don't have that now.
Don't get me wrong, the bad out weighed the good by far, especially in the end. So even though I am missing this one part, I am reminded often about what I do not miss.
I just thought I would share how I am feeling lately.
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